so looking at your pic's. you have a serious caliper issue or the pins in the caliper bracket. When you did your brake job I hope you popped the pins out of the bracket and lubed them make sure there moving freely. not sticking. If that's fine you need to look at you caliper. rebuild it or just get a new one. brake pads when working properly should wear equally. the pulsating can also be the rotors yes but also can be what I just explained with the pins. I have the 2016 reserve 2.3 AWD and I love this car!! and no your pads dont look great. They show a problem.. I've been a mechanic for 40 years. Also you are correct hand tight lugs then torque to 100 foot pounds with a torque wrench. Always in a star pattern.